Friday, July 30, 2010
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Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Sometimes the Ride You Want is Not the Ride You Get – But It Ends Up Being the Ride You Needed
Everyone knows this regular weekend multi-tasking family scene – go to the grocery, the cleaners, run errands, attend important events for friends’ kids, get dinners ready for the next week, mulch, wash clothes, get a case of beer, clean out the cat box(es), do the yard work, visit your 2-year old adorable niece, make fruit cups for lunches, pay the bills, ride 50 miles, etc. Your family’s specifics may be different, but whatever may be on your weekend “gotta do” list, trying to get it all done requires working at an “energetic” (to say the least) pace. We usually don’t get it all done, but somehow the most important things are dealt with and we feel very fortunate and thankful.
One thing we did not “get done” this weekend was the “ride 50 miles” item on our “gotta do” list. We wanted that 50-mile ride. It represents an important milestone to us in our training for the October attempt at a Century. A 50-miler is concrete evidence that we are half way there. Try as we might to do that 50-miler this past weekend, important things happened and it didn’t get that ride done – for now. We feel fortunate and thankful because a ride even more meaningful came our way.
Mid-day Sunday, in the midst of all this “gotta do” activity, Spencer suggested we try to get a ride of some sort in and offered the nearby Crescent Trail to Georgetown as a good choice. So, Spencer did most of the work to load up the truck, and off we went to the Crescent. Aiming for at least the Jefferson Memorial, we rode down the trail, through the train tunnel, over the Arizona Avenue bridge, by the Potomac, until we reached Fletcher’s Cove, where we came upon Kathy Carroll.
Mrs. Carroll had waved Spencer down to ask if by any chance, Spencer had seen a man in trouble any place on the trail. I had arrived by now and “No, we hadn’t see anyone in trouble.” Well, she couldn’t find her husband, she said. They are from Takoma, DC, you know, and ride the Crescent Loop to Sycamore Island or Fletcher’s Cove and then home to Takoma often, stopping to picnic. There was wetness in her eyes’ crinkles. The wetness was not sweat, I didn’t think.
Spencer sped off on his racy road bike back up the trail to Bethesda (about 5 miles) to look for Mr. Carroll. From Bethesda, Spencer called Kathy and me, waiting back at Fletcher’s. Nothing to report. Well says Kathy, Steve (by this time, I knew Mr. Carroll by his first name) fills his water bottles up with Starbucks coffee and smokes. He doesn’t have a cell phone. He may have had a heart attack. Her dear friend’s husband has pancreatic cancer, “don’t ya know.” She said she sure didn’t want to lose Steve. We had to wait until Spencer got back, he having taken another look-see ride back down the trail from Bethesda to us, to get any news.
So, Kathy and I talked. We talked about spouses (Steve is a graphics artist). We talked about yoga (she is a teacher). We talked about daughters (she phoned hers and asked “Becca” to call area hospitals). We talked about what to do next, 2 hours having elapsed since she last saw Steve (she called the police and put in a report). We talked about a musicale she had just produced to benefit “less than untouchable kids” in India ($4000 raised to build an addition to the orphanage). Spencer returned from Bethesda, again reporting no Steve sightings, and then rode on to Georgetown because Kathy said that “maybe Steve went to that Starbucks by the river to get a triple shot.” Kathy and I continued to talk as a way of, we both understood, cope with the tension. Intensely, she wondered out loud if she would bury Steve soon.
Her cell phone rang and she looked at it, but the late afternoon sun kept her from reading the number. She looked at me as if to ask what I thought she should do. I pointed at her phone. She looked at the sky asking somebody something (Was it Becca? Maybe Spencer … or the police? The GW emergency room? Steve?) Then, she opened her eyes very wide and tore open the phone.
“Steve! Where are you and do you know that I thought I might have to bury you?”
We will keep that 50-miler on the “gotta do” list for next week. Sunday, we felt fortunate and thankful for our ride.
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